The Edge of His Garment| What is love? | | Posted by Maribeth on Monday, May 14, 2012 at 8:30pm |
This week I reflected on Mother’s Day and thought of the question, “What is love?” Love is more than just expressing an emotion or saying the words, “I love you.” It is an intimate relationship with those whom we depend on--our moms, dads, families, spouses, and friends.
Love is a bond that develops over time and demands sharing our joys and disappointments, our highs and lows, with those tightly woven into our relationships. Love requires more than a one way communication and takes nothing less than active listening on our part to succeed. Love requires time and growth and knowing when to let go with growth.
We depend on love all stages of our lives: from infancy to walking; from walking to various trainings; from training to growth and development and from development to our final departing celebration.
Yes, love is people…the people in our lives, who give us so much of their time while we are here on earth. They are a listening ear, an encouraging word, a hug on a joyous occasion, or a shoulder to cry on during final departing celebrations. They are important to us and we are important to them.
For love to flourish, we must be willing to invest our time and be open to change and growth. The same can be said for our relationship with God. Our love with God will flourish if we spend time with Him in prayer and are receptive to His growth for us. This unselfish act of love is important to our life experiences with Him and His people.
So, back to the original question, “What is love?” God is love. God surrounded us with His love—the people in our lives--for us to experience Him. If we are to be truly intimate in our relationship with God, then must cherish and value the relationships we have with the people in our lives--our friends, families, spouses, dads and yes,--our moms.
Your comments about love are welcomed.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Equipment for the Journey
| | | | | What's springing up? | | Posted by Maribeth on Friday, April 27, 2012 at 7:15pm |
Well, it is that time of year when I do the spring inspection of my yard. You know what I mean, when the weather turns warm and creates that yearning to do yard work. One of my annual spring checklists for the year is to evaluate the conditions of the yard after the winter season.
The inspection is always interesting to me, because I never know what I am going to find and I always find something new. I find over grown weeds, flowers that I did and didn’t plant, and some new weed that I can’t seem to get rid of the entire summer.
I always look for my flowers I planted for spring, some shooting bloom of their sprouting from the crusty earth, but this year I didn’t see a one of them. Every year I carefully plan and place where to plant the bulbs for the spring, yet every year I get surprised.
It reminds me of our lives. We think we carefully plan for every kind of dilemma or crisis, but something always springs up to change things. Just when things seem to be going so smoothly along in our lives, something happens and changes our plans. It is usually those flowering sprouts of our family and friends that shoot up unexpectedly that causes the changes. You know the ones: ailing parents who can no longer care for themselves; grown children with families, who must move back home for financial and moral support; health issues; financial issues; work issues, children issues, etc. etc. and the list goes on.
What is the saying, "The best laid plan of mice and men, often go awry." That is how it is in our lives. We may think we are the best planners on earth, but we can never plan for the unexpected. God always knows best for us, even those things which are unexpected. We are constantly adjusting our awry plans and many times we forget who is in the mist of those plans…God.
Remember the scripture of Isaiah 55:8,
“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,” declares the LORD.
When things change and spring up unexpectedly in your life; pray to God. Ask Him for wisdom and understanding on what His plan is for you. Ask Him to help adjust your plan and make it compatible with His plan. You will be better prepared to handle those unexpected things, those springing situations or those shocking family/friends sprouts of yours.
Recheck your plan frequently to ensure you are on track with God. He will guide you through those unexpected surprises. And when you think that nothing can help your shattered plan, remember Proverbs 3:5-6,
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.
Focus on God’s plan and you will find a welcoming surprise in your life among unexpected conditions. I did--a flower blooming among my spring weeds.
..they do not know God’s thoughts or understand his plan”
(Micah 4:12)
Time with God
| | | | | He is Risen! | | Posted by Maribeth on Sunday, April 8, 2012 at 7:06pm |
A few years ago in Florida, I was at a sunrise service on Easter morning. It was the first sunrise service I was ever able to attend. The service was outdoors in a shelter house. The altar was beautifully decorated with flowers and a hand carved cross spelling out the name Jesus. The cross was of medium size and placed right behind the altar.
I decided to take a picture of this beautiful cross. The service was beginning, so I snapped the picture quickly without a steady focus. I was only aiming to get a picture of the hand carved cross. I knew there would be some glare from the lights, but I didn’t care. I just wanted a picture of that cross.
After the service was over I looked at the picture. The image above is what was captured; it was a large beautiful light hovering above the altar. The hand carved cross was not even close in size to the size of the light.
There were only a few lights on in the outdoor shelter house for the service. However, I was not aiming at the lights when I took this picture. I expected some glare, but did not expect a huge light like this—and right over the altar!
I have not made any alterations to this picture. Maybe I am seeing more than what there is, but for me, it was beautiful to see this dazzling, brilliant LIGHT hovering over the altar on Easter morning.
He is risen!
Thank you Jesus for coming. Thank you for this Resurrection Day…He is alive!
Then go quickly and tell his disciples: ‘He has risen from the dead and is going ahead of you into Galilee.
Matthew 28:7
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Love Notes from God
| | | | | Were you in the crowd? | | Posted by Maribeth on Friday, April 6, 2012 at 9:56pm |
“Crucify Him, crucify Him! Away with this man Jesus! Release Barabbas to us!”
(John 18:40--19:6)
Every year on Good Friday, our church congregation reads the Passion of Christ and takes on the role of the angry crowd. We say the words, “Crucify Him, crucify Him! Release Barabbas to us!” with rage and passion, just like the crowd did as Jesus stood before Pilate.
Reading the Passion reminds us to look at ourselves as the responsible ones who placed Christ on the cross. We are the ones whom Jesus came to save and rekindle to God’s friendship. Yet like the angry mob, we play the group of people caught up in the frenzy of the moment ready to attack and condemn Him.
Many of us want to think that if we were present at that time, we would have saved Jesus and not been in that crowd. However, in reality, wouldn’t you have been in the crowd? In a time when Pilate ruled with an iron hand and Rome was ready to strike down anyone who came up against it; what would you have done? When one has many fears and doubts, it is easy to hide in a crowd and ride the wave of emotion. It is at that time we need to remember where Jesus is in our lives and just trust in Him.
Crowds are fueled by energy and many times that energy can be negative. That is what happened to the crowd when Jesus stood before Pilate. As they jeered and chanted for Jesus’ death, their energy was being ignited more and more by certain negative people. These same groups of people had just praised Jesus on Palm Sunday, but now were ready to condemn Him to death. Between those few days nothing had changed with the crowd, except their energy.
Crowds do not think, they live in the moment of energy and transmit that negative energy to others. Negative energy in crowds can lead to bullying, racism, gang violence, gender/sexual preference bashing, violent protesting, ethnic hatred, etc. etc. and the list goes on.
The next time you find yourself in a crowd, think about the energy. Is it positive or negative? Recognize that you may need to step away from the crowd to think clearly about things. It takes courage to step away from this type of energy; but all things are possible with Christ.
Think about it: Will your fears or doubts lead you to a negative crowd or are you already
living in one?
But Jesus was saying, “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing.”
Luke 23:34
Equipment for the Journey
| | | | | March Madness | | Posted by Maribeth on Thursday, March 29, 2012 at 6:18pm |
 Recently I was visiting a relative of mine and the NCAA basketball tournament games were on the television at her house. I will call her Pat--to protect the innocent and besides that, I go to her home quite often for homemade Sunday dinners.
Pat’s team was playing in the tournament. I will not mention the team, trying to stay impartial to all, since the NCAA tournaments are still ongoing. She had a house full of fans ranging from children to adults.
Now I must inform you that Pat is a diehard college fan and has strong allegiance to her team. On game days Pat’s house is decorated in her team colors. She has even taught her grandchildren how to say the team cheers and fight songs.
Now it was down to the final seconds and the score was tied in this nail biting game. Of course this was the opportune time for one of the coaches to call a time out. The television went to a commercial and this was the regular cue for fans to run to the bathroom, fridge and anywhere else they needed before the live game came back on. Just as everyone started to make their mad dashes from their seats, Pat began to shout,
"Everyone stay where you are and don’t move from your seats. Sit back down.”
I looked somewhat surprised.
“What are you talking about?”I said as I looked at her.
I watched the looks on the faces around the room as they descended back into their seats. It appeared from their looks that this had happened before, but I was the only one who seemed surprised.
Pat immediately replied, “I don’t want anyone to jinx my team in these final seconds. So everyone remain in your same seats until this game is over.”
“You got to be kidding? You don’t really believe that do you?” I blurted out.
“Yes, I do. I believe any changes will jinx my team. So sit back down for them to win,” she glanced back at me.
Laughing, I sat back down, not because of any jinx, but out of respected for her house.
Now before I get a crowd of people ready to chastise me about reading their daily horoscopes and having good luck charms or rituals, let me just put “my” spin on looking at some things differently.
What if we placed that much emphasis on God? God is bigger than any jinx or superstition. There is nothing God can’t handle or change if He wants; after all, He is the great I AM. He is our positive source of energy, love –and luck. Why not look to Him as your daily horoscope guide along with being your good luck charm--that is if you feel you need one. All I am saying is, if you haven’t tried it already, then give God control and watch what happens in your life. I think you will like the results.
By the way, Pat’s team won that day, but not because of any jinx. They won because they practiced continuously to sharpen their skills for those tough games. The same can be said for our practice with God. The more we pray, rely on God and give Him control, the easier it becomes to trust Him in our tough times. Not jinxes, or superstitions--just God.
Let’s be mad about God this season.
..God said unto Moses, I AM THAT I AM..
Exodus 3:14
Questions: Are you mad about God this season? What practicing skills are you using? Please share your thoughts in the comments.
Time with God
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